13:8 Owe no one anything except to love one another, for he who loves another has fulfilled the law. 9 For the commandments, “You shall not commit adultery,” “You shall not murder,” “You shall not steal,” “You shall not bear false witness,” “You shall not covet,” and if there is any other commandment, are all summed up in this saying, namely, “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” 10 Love does no harm to a neighbor; therefore love is the fulfillment of the law."
Love does no harm. Love causes no pain to another. Love brings all other good things in its wake. You can not steal and not love at the same time but you can't love and steal. Love needs no rules. Love is its own law. It does more than not harm. It seeks the betterment of others. Obsessing about being good and not breaking rules is actually loveless. 1 Corinthians 13 says love is not self seeking. Jesus was love, is love, and His only concern was and is others. Moses fell in love with the wayward Israelites and offered to die so they could be spared. Paul echoed his sentiments.
When we see people sacrifice themselves for the good of others we automatically recognize it as love. The sad reality is I could spend my entire life seeking right behaviour and never love anyone in the entire process.
If all religion is is rules then we have not found Him. Find Him. Fall in love.